(Be honest-how many times have you had sex from one position and only one position?) You can’t just take a tried-and-true two-person favorite and try tacking another person onto it-it might not translate. And it’s not a matter of identifying a single threesome sex position that works for your trio, either. Odds are, you want everyone involved to feel engaged at all times. With another player in the game, there’s more coordination to be had. (I mean, seriously-missionary is about as straightforward as it gets.) But threesome sex positions are decidedly more opaque. You see them in movies and on TV, you read about them in books, and honestly, even without any exposure to them at all, you could probably figure them out. How do you initiate a threesome? How do you transition into one? And once you get there, how do you, well, have one-which threesome sex positions can you rely on for a good time?īecause, let’s be real-two-person sex positions are easy enough to figure out. Threesomes are undeniably intriguing, but they’re, in every way, less obvious than two-person sex. (Probably too transparent.) And basically every challenge I’ve encountered is logistical. As a writer, I’ve been pretty transparent about my hang-ups with threesomes.